3 mths in a glance...

hmmm lets see....

JAN

School starts...everything same old same old..

cant managed to keep myself separated from Sports Club...

Help out in all 3 events BECOS of friends...

Surf n Sweat 2007

the sun the sand and the beach...

yada yada...etc...

drinking the night before the actual event

at event ground..

fun and enjoyable

did hell lots of jumping jacks...for losing in poker...

at least its not money..

FEB

started to look for my attachment company...

dragged myself thru lessons...

CNY same old stuff...

National Vertical Marathon 2007

helped set up...

16th main comm are....fucked up...

but the event came thru becos of the hardworking event comm...

looking at them, it reminded me of the first VM i was involved in...

NVM2005 will always be a part of me

dis year they hit new heights in participation rates..

gd but in a way...dats the only new thing they can create...

nothing else...event quite stagnant...

but neverthelest GREAT JOB NVM07

March

still looking for my attachment company without any luck...

X-PHYSIQUE 2007

one sentence...

I WILL NEVER HELP OUT IN X-PHYSIQUE AGAIN...

something happened in march though...less than 2 weeks back...

I was asked to go for an interview under a construction firm.

dis company was intro-ed by another frd...

he gave me the contact either earlier or at most at the same time as another frd...

so i called within dat week and got an interview...

(it fell thru anyway)

BUT

the another frd...he came to a social occasion where i was ard too

he started to ask the guy who introed the company to us...why not he cannot apply to dat company...

so I told him the reason behind it

(the guy who pulled out of the company told the one who gave us the number...not to give out to too many pple...so when i got the interview...shld stop giving le...the idea of "monks many porridge little")

so the another frd he was quite pissed at that...he remembered he got the number before me...and assumed i went behind his back and applied without him...

(he chose to go overseas enjoy in that week and now he says dis...)

i was still calm then...i told him...he got it wrong...at most is both of us got the bloody contact at the same time....if not I got it earlier...confirm not him...

but dat didnt register on his mind...nvm...

i didnt wanna say anything else by then...

then he asked in his usual harsh "i am right you are wrong" tone

"You want dis to be a fair fight or you wan me to back down cos if i go i have an obvious advantage over you, i got license you got none."

dat does it...it blew my tolorence cap off...somehow i jus cant be bothered to answer such a qn...

but i did...i told him to back down lor...since he proposed the idea...i was still telling him before dis, i can give all the contacts to the company, he want he go try lor.

I told him to back down after dat statement from him...and i jus walked off...pissed but i didnt wanna blow things out of proportions then...its a frd's bday bbq.

i was utterly pissed and annoyed by dat statement...

then...a frd asked him wats wrong?...he told him..."James jus being selfish la"

dat does it...i jus ignored him the whole night...

in the first place...dis is a guy...who never thinks whether he is wrong or not first..he will prove u wrong first...so in dis way he is not wrong.

secondly, once he fixed on something, he wun listen to explaination or reason from other sides.

SO knowing him as who he is...i chose to let it go and avoid argument there and then.

i cant win him verbally...he is too gd at rebutting pple

so i jus let it be...

then one day after....he told me thru msn...he disappointed at me...

i was huh?

in my view...there is a limit to things one can give in...

he jus crossed it with dat statement...

and now he is disappointed at me?! best...

from the start of the school...i told,advised, shared with him thing he shld know abt attachment

i kept reminding him the deadline etc...then i was still finding companies without luck...

can u imagine my desperation?

but still i never kept him out of anything impt things he shld know abt the attachment...

then the day of bbq then he starts finding companies... and said i jumped his queue for a shot at the company...

the moment he got the contact I TOLD HIM to make the enquiry call there and then...but he never and flew off to thailand the next day....

ITS MY FAULT YOU DIDNT CALL?

haiz...

disappointed then disappointed la...fuck...i had enuff of giving in all the time

most things i can let go and do it ur way...

cos normally i am an easy going guy....if it doesnt affect me greatly or cause me any inconvenience...go ahead and do it however u wan

i chose to let dis matter rest and calm down totally first...

so chapter closed on dis whole thing

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Last Week

i found out there is an event out for bidding by companies to be done...

its a simple and big school event.

I heard abt it and decided to go and do it.

I bring in my 2 event planning buddies in and decided we either start our own company and do it under a frd company name.

but no matter wat we are goin to bid for it...

At dis time we know mr @ is doing it too...

(mr @ is the one dat pissed me off with the statement the week b4)

he bringing in outside event company to bid for it.

nvm fair deal, gd experience gd money

He did not mention it at all, so i kept quiet too.

today we were having dinner together, so i decided rather than he finds out from others...i shld tell him i am one of his compeititors first...

i told him and his first reply is "Everytime like dis"

blood boiled...but i contained it dis time round...

2 can play dis game...

Me and my 2 other frds have been thinking abt going full force into event planning since year 1...

jus so happen this chance came up now...and have to go against mr @...

i was friendly enuff to let him know first before the actual briefing for all bidders from school side.

and he act as though i cut him off in everything...

he is the one who left frds out of a gd deal always so he can earn more.

now he knows my side is no small fry pple involved, he went to find his army oso...

if he wants it played out dis way...go ahead....i got nothing to lose...

he has his big ego to lose...

get the facts right first...and not wat you think are facts...